Self Esteem & Confidence Building
Conﬁdence is a state of mind. When we feel conﬁdent, we accept ourselves and believe in our abilities. When we don't feel conﬁdent, we can become stressed, anxious, unfulﬁlled and ultimately, unhappy.
Low self-conﬁdence is something many of us suffer with. It can be a result of many factors, such as fear of the unknown, low self-esteem, or fear of how other people see us. This lack of conﬁdence can hold us back from developing both personally and professionally.
What causes low self-conﬁdence?
How we feel about ourselves is often inﬂuenced by our past experiences, both positive and negative. The things we experience in our everyday lives, how we and those around us - react to those events, can all have a signiﬁcant impact on how we view ourselves and the world around us.
How we see ourselves may be inﬂuenced by friends, family, colleagues, peers, or even the media. Big, memorable events such as a traumatic experience can have a signiﬁcant impact, and can cause our sense of belief in ourselves to lower, leading to lower conﬁdence.
The difference between self-esteem and self-conﬁdence
While self-conﬁdence and self-esteem are usually linked, they are not the same thing. When we talk about self-conﬁdence we are referring to the way we feel about our ability to carry out tasks and roles. Self-esteem refers to the way we feel about ourselves - the way we look, behave and think.
Those with low self-esteem generally have low self-conﬁdence too. Having said this, people with low self-esteem can have conﬁdence in certain areas and those with high self-esteem may lack conﬁdence in certain areas.
Having conﬁdence in your abilities does not mean performing tasks perfectly. In fact, a big part of having self-conﬁdence is knowing how to deal with mistakes when they occur. Having conﬁdence can make a huge difference in many areas of our lives. Two key areas that beneﬁt are your career and relationships.
Career - Lacking conﬁdence at work can stop you from voicing your opinion and trying new things. This can hinder your progression and stunt your development. Building conﬁdence at work can help you reach your full potential and ensure your voice is heard.
Relationships - When you have low self-conﬁdence it can affect your relationships with friends, family and partners. It may hold you back from meeting people or cause you to isolate yourself socially. Improving this can help you feel more comfortable in social environments.
If you feel you could beneﬁt from building your conﬁdence, hypnotherapy is a safe and effective way to make a positive, long-lasting change.
Hypnosis for conﬁdence
Have you ever met someone who despite constant reassurance and approval, lacks conﬁdence in their abilities? Or perhaps you know someone who thinks they are fantastic at what they do, despite other people telling them otherwise?
This happens because our unconscious holds a set of beliefs about us that stay the same, regardless of external factors. So a singer who believes deep in their unconscious that they have a terrible voice, will likely avoid performing, even if people tell them they have a great voice.
So, how do we overcome these deep-seated beliefs? As these beliefs dwell in our unconscious, this is where the change must take place.
Hypnotherapy accesses the sub-concious mind and uses the power of suggestion to facilitate positive change. These suggestions can be tailored to help improve conﬁdence levels. Generally these suggestions will be positive and made in the present tense. For example the phrase "you feel conﬁdent in everything you do" would be used rather than "you no longer doubt yourself". The theory behind this is that the unconscious can't differentiate between "you have" and "you no longer have".
How can hypnosis help improve my conﬁdence?
Hypnotherapy can help some people improve their self-conﬁdence and self-esteem. By accessing your subconscious mind, or inner voice, I can help you start to take control about how you are feeling about yourself, working with you to discover what may have caused you to develop low-conﬁdence, and helping you to feel more conﬁdent.
Your inner voice can feel like your biggest critic, causing you to feel bad about yourself, your thoughts or actions. But it is possible to overcome these negative thoughts, no matter how deeply embedded they may seem. I can help to re-teach your unconscious mind and help you to see yourself in a kinder light. As well as being able to help improve your overall conﬁdence, hypnosis can help improve your conﬁdence and self-belief around speciﬁc areas, such as in work or relationships, or to boost your conﬁdence around a speciﬁc goal such as taking a driving test or giving a presentation.
What happens during a hypnosis for conﬁdence session?
To begin with, we will carry out a full consultation and I will talk to you about what you hope to achieve through hypnotherapy. I will ask questions about your past to try and establish any root causes or triggers for the way you feel. I will explain how hypnosis for conﬁdence works, telling you more about the process so you know what to expect.
Once we are both happy with what you plan to do, hypnotherapy will begin. You will be guided into a highly relaxed state. You will not be asleep - you will be aware of what is happening throughout. Once you are in this state, I will communicate with your unconscious, using questions and suggestive statements to challenge your limiting beliefs.
The statements used will depend on your personal circumstances and will relate to any particular conﬁdence issues you feel you have. The idea behind hypnotherapy is that when your unconscious believes you are conﬁdent, this translates to your conscious. This therefore changes your thought patterns and actions to improve your conﬁdence.
What happens after my hypnotherapy session?
The number of hypnosis for conﬁdence sessions you'll need will depend on your individual circumstances, but this is something we can discuss. Most clients usually need on average between 4 and 6 sessions to achieve maximum beneﬁt.
The cost of this treatment is £50 per session.